Thursday, June 4, 2020

Religion and Ridicule (1999)


One Muslim boy was laughed at and scolded for mispronouncing ‘Christ’ during a Grade 4 Christmas pageant, a former student has testified.
“Everyone laughed at him and the teacher told him if he didn’t have respect for our religion, he would be taken out of the Christmas,” Megan Williams 17, recalled.
Williams who was a student at Brunskill and Greystone elementary schools, was testifying at a tribunal hearing a complaint from a group of parents protesting religious practices at Saskatoon public schools...
In the city’s 550 public elementary classrooms, 108 started the day with the Lord’s Prayer in 1996. Some teachers also include Bible readings during the school day.
In other testimony, a rabbi and religious scholar said that forcing children to recite the Lord’s Prayer in school is indoctrination, not education...”All religious groups have within them strands of intolerance, but most people are offended by this idea. We are not in the Ayatollah’s Iran, I hope,” said the rabbi, who has studied Islam, Judaism and Christianity.
“Prayer as an act of worship has to be engaged, in order to be meaningful, as a voluntary act of faith. Here it is a coercive act of worship, which is meaningless.”
The school board allows non-Christian children to leave the room during prayers and readings or to simply not participate or quietly say their own prayers...
The Board has been considering a new policy to allow multi-faith prayer in schools, but the change can’t happen under current provincial law.
‘Right now it’s the Lord’s Prayer or nothing,’ said the Board’s lawyer outside the hearing...

quoted from Canadian Press-Saskatoon July14, 1999.

Having read the article ‘Religion and Ridicule’ (Toronto Star, July 14, 1999) regarding the use of the Lord’s Prayer in some of Saskatoon’s public schools, I was immediately sympathetic to those in protest. Freedom of worship is a freedom that Canadians of various religious persuasions have laboured hard to institute and preserve, including those well versed in the Lord’s Prayer.

But in considering the matter further I think it important to rightly identify the crime.

That a child could be ridiculed for having beliefs which differ from the majority of his classmates is indeed criminal, if not in law, at least in principle. It is bad behaviour and indeed bad religion if that is what the religion teaches. But when ridicule runs contrary to what the religion teaches, is the religion or in this case, the Lord’s Prayer to blame?

A good thing used badly does not make it bad. Just because Johnny ‘the browner’ gets ridiculed by his classmates for getting an ‘A’ in a math test is no reason to rid our schools of testing. No doubt our children would prefer such measures, but it is possible to deal with the ridicule without eliminating exams. Otherwise the remedy could prove worse than the ailment it was intended to cure.

The same thing holds true for a good thing coerced. A message badly delivered can cast aspersions on the message itself, but it need not invalidate it. For those of us who sat through English literature badly taught or Social Studies fraught with political bias, we had to learn to separate the message from the messenger. 

(No doubt, those who taught us were convinced that but for strong arm tactics, there was no other way we’d learn!) Wisdom necessitates we differentiate the two.

But what if the message itself is to blame? Is the Lord’s Prayer too Christian ‘specific’ to be of benefit to those of non-Christian belief? Specifically, does its content strengthen or undermine good relations within schools, especially among those of different faiths? Does it compliment or negate the noble goal of education to foster good relations within its diverse population?

Looking at the text, I think it fosters good relations:

Our Father in heaven
Hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread 
Forgive us our sins as we forgive everyone who sins against us. 
And lead us not into temptation
But deliver us from evil.

Openly I confess to not knowing as much about Islam, Judaism and Christianity as does the rabbi who takes issue with the use of this prayer. However, the prayer is seemingly built on common ground. It makes no mention of the two bones of contention that Islam and Judaism both have with Christianity, namely Jesus’ divinity and his resurrection from the dead. 

Instead it reinforces shared essentials: God our Father, whose name is holy; the appeal to His good will being done; our common need for daily bread; the imperative to forgive; and the need for His help in our struggle against evil. 
From an educational standpoint, it means learning what is common to religious activity regardless of the religion, i.e. God and good behaviour. To appreciate religious diversity begins with an appreciation of what we share, which the Lord’s Prayer does not contravene.

This makes me sympathetic to the Saskatoon education board’s unwillingness to pursue the ‘no prayer’ option, which is the only alternative they have under current provincial law.

Anyone who raises children these days can’t help but be overwhelmed by the flood of images our children are exposed to, too many of which are violent, inhuman and profane. Image after image, at a speed and intensity too overwhelming to curb, are wearing down the infrastructure of our children’s resistance to wrongdoing and the results are distressingly obvious.

If we continue to shelter our children from the divine imperatives of forgiving one another and resisting evil, of giving thanks for daily bread and giving heed to God’s will; we really can’t be surprised when they are unforgiving, ungrateful and self obsessed.

In which case you say the Lord’s Prayer is not enough. No it isn’t, but I’m convinced it helps.

The only year in which my classmates and I were forced to say the Lord’s Prayer was in Grade 10, when we had to say it in Latin. Conclusively it did nothing to make us either Christian or Latin. But when the adolescent impulse arose to lose patience, to retaliate, to not forgive, among those voices aligned with our collective conscience to resist, was a fledgling Latin one.

In that regard, our children don’t have it as good as we did. And they are suffering for it. More boards of education than just Saskatoon’s know it. Littleton knows it. And inwardly, I think we all do. In our angst that religion not ridicule, we have ridiculed religion. We have forbidden it from the classroom. Consequently, our children’s education is being deprived of an essential ally they need to exercise good will.

I think we can do better.

Monday, May 18, 2020

Is inter-faith dialogue even possible?

Many of the world’s religions have a variation of this doctrine: “believe this (whatever ‘this’ is) and you shall be saved," and conversely, "if you don’t believe this, whatever ‘this’ is, you are damned."

Needless to say, such doctrine can be a complicating factor in inter-faith dialogue. How can dialogue happen between people of differing beliefs, when each believe the other to be wrong, if not damned?

I have had the experience of engaging in LinkedIn discussion groups where this severity of name calling hits the roof when the topic is religion.

The worst I have ever been called in my various business related forms is ‘pinko commie’.

Pales in comparison with the worst I have been called in various religious forums, which is ‘son of Satan’. The latter kills any possibility of further dialogue which until recently convinced me that any God debate is doomed before it starts.

But what happens if the dialogue begins some place other than where we disagree? Like COVID 19 for example.

Last week a bunch of us religious types: Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Jewish and Buddhist got together over ZOOM to talk about how our respective religious communities were dealing with the COVID 19 pandemic.

Some spoke of finding peace in either prayer or meditation to offset the anxieties of job loss and loss of social connection.

Others spoke of reaching out to those in need, whether in distributing food to the hungry or in connecting by phone with seniors who have been house bound and alone for weeks.

Some spoke of the inspiration their faith is to them in troubled times while others admitted to not doing so well despite their faith.

I came away from the experience wanting more, feeling more connected to my neighbour, especially the neighbour whose faith differs from mine.

Thursday, January 9, 2020

The way God sees us


I can't tell you the number of times I have reflected on this photo.

The face looking out into the playground is that of a young girl who near the end of her first day at day-care sees, with sheer delight, her older sister looking in at her.

I don't care who you are, what you've done - each of you, indeed each one of us, is meant to have a face looking in on us with such unutterable delight, we are totally transfigured. What deep welcome we know, when someone finds such consolation and joy to see us.

And our reply is meant to be reciprocal. In their seeing the warmth and welcome on our faces, their world loses its strangeness and indifference. We look on their vulnerability and transparency with such tenderness, they feel special in being seen. They see they are not alone.

Then I think of the sisters and brothers separated not by glass but a wall. They see no face of welcome, no face to shatter the isolation and the cold indifference they feel.

We live in times which demand we pray and work to convert every wall into a window - whether a border wall or any other wall built by suspicion, hatred and fear - so that in the faces looking out and in the faces looking in - we discover the consolation and delight we all so desperately need.

It is the way God sees us.